Change of scenery

My children are grown. As a matter of fact, my "baby" graduates from college next week. It has been four years since I sold my daycare business. I sold the business in June 2006. In August 2006, Erin moved into school housing for CSULB. In September 2006, Kelly moved into a UCI dorm. In October 2006, I moved from a 2500 square foot harbor view Rancho Palos Verdes home to a two bedroom apartment in South Coast Metro. Not quite the ocean view that I was accustomed to, but the sounds of ducks playing in the complex's lake created an oasis for me.

I had always worked 50 to 60 hours a week. Attempting to do this, be a soccer mom and go to school was arduous at best. Opting to make the drastic changes of 2006 was not easy to say the least. My life was extremely full of activities and people I loved dearly. Alas, I knew that I had to make changes if I was ever going to complete my education.

Being a vital part in the lives of so many precious people for 14 years was SO incredibly rewarding, yet, I knew that I needed to finish my education for my personal self fulfillment. The sacrifices really made me appreciate my educational process much more than I think I could have appreciated it in my youth.

I sit at my computer today reflecting back on the last four years. Yes, deciding to "jump into uncharted waters" was stressful, but the rewards for this feat have been too numerous to count!

My daughters and I spent the last four years in almost parallel universes despite the age difference. We hung out to share the joys and displeasures of making such drastic changes. Explorations of new environments ensued. Erin, Kelly and I were able to truly relate to each others' circumstances. Our familial support system, love and respect for each other deepened.

A four year vacation from a 25 year stint of 50 plus hour work weeks was just what the doctor ordered for me. It amazes me how much a life can change in four years.Renewing my relationship with God opened doors to so many blessings. Time for friendships materialized. Truly relaxing was a luxury that I had not experienced for many years. The Lord brought me a wonderful husband after ten years of being a struggling single mother. Wow! Four years ago, I would have never imagined my life being what it is today. I am blessed!!

The path I have taken the last four year has taught me that change is good. There will be struggles. There will be joy. Investing in oneself can yield benefits far more valuable than any retirement plan has to offer. Don't get me wrong, I understand that money is essential. For me, I've decided that my relationship with God and family is the cement that solidifies the foundation of my life.